TO EACH THEIR HOME DECOR STYLE

Home is where your heart—and style—truly lives. Whether you’re someone who has always had a clear vision of your aesthetic or someone whose taste evolves with every passing year, your home decor tells a story about who you are. Deciding on your style can feel like a big decision, but it’s important to remember that it doesn’t have to be permanent. Just like you, your style can grow, shift, and adapt over time. My sister has maintained the same style as long as I can remember. It’s what I call casual Williamsburg; custom made drapes all in the color pallet of old Williamsburg. She does not understand my frequent style changes. Guess to each his own!!

The Beauty of Discovery

When you first set out to decorate your space, it might feel overwhelming. Do you lean towards the cozy familiarity of farmhouse chic, the clean lines of modern minimalism, or the boldness of eclectic patterns and colors? Often, your first decor choices are influenced by trends, budget, or even what’s on sale at your favorite store. And that’s okay! Those early choices are stepping stones that help you discover what you truly love.

How Style Grows with Age

As we move through different stages of life, our priorities and perspectives shift, and so does our decor style.

  • In Your 20s: This phase is often about experimenting. You might have hand-me-down furniture, DIY projects, and a mix of styles as you figure out what resonates with you. It’s a time to explore the styles but do not over think.
  • In Your 30s and 40s: These years often bring more focus. Whether you’ve developed a love for timeless classics or embraced a specific aesthetic, you’re likely more intentional with your choices. Maybe you’re investing in higher-quality pieces or curating items that reflect your personality and experiences.
  • In Your 50s and Beyond: For some, this is when their style crystallizes, becoming a comforting constant. Others see it as an opportunity to refine, declutter, or even reinvent their space with a fresh perspective.

Keeping the Same Style Forever

For those who find a style they love and stick with it, their homes become a beautiful testament to their consistency. Whether it’s a love for vintage elegance, coastal vibes, or rustic charm, there’s something special about creating a timeless sanctuary that feels like “you” at every stage of life.

My sister has maintained the same style as long as I can remember. It’s what I call casual Williamsburg; custom made drapes all in the color pallet of old Williamsburg. She does not understand my frequent style changes. Guess to each his own!! fe.

Embracing Change

On the flip side, it’s equally wonderful to embrace change. Just as your wardrobe shifts with the seasons and your tastes, so too can your home. Maybe you’re ready to swap neutral tones for vibrant colors or replace traditional pieces with contemporary designs. Change isn’t about rejecting the old; it’s about celebrating growth and curiosity. I just see things that I love and see how it will kinda go with what I already have. I just love change; may have been why I only stayed with my first 2 husbands for 10 years each. LOL

Tips for Finding and Evolving Your Style

  1. Start with What You Love: Look around your home and identify pieces or colors that make you happy. These are your anchors.
  2. Take Your Time: Style isn’t a race. Allow yourself to collect pieces that feel meaningful rather than rushing to “complete” a space.
  3. Stay Open to Inspiration: Trends, travels, and even new hobbies can spark shifts in your style.
  4. Mix Old with New: Combine treasured items with fresh finds to keep your space feeling grounded yet dynamic.

Your Home, Your Story

No matter where you are in your journey, remember that your home is a reflection of you. Whether your style remains constant or evolves with the seasons of your life, what matters most is that your space feels like home—a place of comfort, joy, and self-expression. Your home should look like you have been collecting over several years- not like you went to the store and bought the decor. Look for very special pieces; don’t just settle.

What’s your decor style, and how has it grown with you? Let me know in the comments—I’d love to hear your story!

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